Having gone through almost the exact same thing with my youngest daughter I can feel your pain and I get your worrying about her future.
For us it really turned around once we could get her into a special education school. I realise that for some people making the decision to send their kid to a spec.ed. shool carries some stigma but for our daughter the difference way day and night. In about one to two weeks time school went from something she dreaded to being fun again and she’s well on her way to regaining her learning deficit.
Al this to say, hang in there, things will get better.
And don’t worry about Crom’s Anvil content for the site, I’ll just push all of the stuff I’ve bought from you to the front of my painting que and start posting ASAP.😉
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