Games can wait. Your kid is more important (obviously you know that but somehow it feels important to let you know that literally everyone else thinks the same as you).
I hope you’re able to access the help you all need. I have a close relative in the same situation as yourselves and I know things can be all-consuming under these circumstances. Without getting too political, it’s certainly harder than it should be these days, though most people at the coalface of SEN education are fighting the good fight; I hope you have some of them in your corner.